>>snippage<<
>> I think the reason the IVF thing bit me the wrong way was this
>> statement - -
>>
>> "she wouldn't have to deal with the stress of trying to get pregnant,"
>> the source tells Us. "She could just knock it out."
>
> For me it was this statement, also from a 'well placed insider,' "They
> both desperately wanted more babies soon." ...because 4 is just not
> enough. I have a hard time believing that they are desperate about
> anything, those two.
Thank you for pointing that out. Jamie. I can't imagine desperation being
part of their daily lives. I know that there are a lot of causes they are
working on which bring on intense emotions. But in turn with all the
blessings they have in their lives I can't imagine desperation setting in
because they didn't get pregnant in the blink of an eye. How could you get
desperate with four beautiful, precious little people already calling you
Mama and Daddy?
Cindi
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> --
>
> Jamie Clark
>
> www.ClarkDigitalArts.com
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>
>
>> granted that might be a complete or partial or correct statement since
it
>> is from well placed insider. But, if that is a correct *****sment it
was
>> the dealing with the stress of trying to get pregnant as if IVF is not
>> stressful. I guess if you aren't looking at IVF as the only way you can
>> give birth to a child then maybe it isn't stressful. I never had to
face
>> IVF and I know that we never reached that level of fighting infertility
>> but looking at my friends who every one of us have sat waiting and
>> praying and hoping that and IVF worked makes me just hate for it to be
>> ****trayed as a quick way to getting pregnant.so you don't have to try
for
>> a couple of months.
>>
>> And Mary, those who just pop up and announce "oh, we need to get
pregnant
>> this month so that I can lose my baby weight to fit into my dress for
'so
>> and so's' wedding in a year." I smile and sup****t them, but inside I
>> admit I get sad and envious. I can think of those innocent years when
we
>> first got married where I thought I could plan when we would get
pregnant
>> and I'd stop my BCPs so "poof" I'd succeed. Grrrrrrrrr why couldn't it
>> always work like that?
>>
>> Cindi
>>
>>>
>>> Mary
>>> --
>>> Mommy to three wonderful, IUI miracle girls:
>>> Rayna Marie (a.k.a. Bayne) 1/20/03 (@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
40 weeks, 8 lbs. 10 oz.)
>>> Kyra Nicole (a.k.a. Kere Bear) 9/20/06 (@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
37 weeks, 8 lbs. 4 oz.)
>>> Camille Elizabeth (a.k.a. Cammy) 9/20/06 (@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
37 weeks, 6 lbs. 3 oz.)
>>>
>>>
>>> "HappyMamaTo3" <LonnicusuoTAKEMEOUT@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>> news:CQ3ik.18916$N87.18633@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>>>I know that this is just sour grapes on my part, but reading the
article
>>>>that re****ted Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt had chosen IVF to get
>>>>pregnant with their twins made me feel like they were insulting the
>>>>couples who work so hard to get there when they are facing IVF as
their
>>>>last chanec to conquer infertility. From the "insider" they used IVF
so
>>>>they didn't have to go to the trouble of getting pregnant. Now that is
a
>>>>nice commentary. "Sorry Brad I don't want to have *** with you enough
to
>>>>get pregnant." (my sarcasm not a real quote) {
>>>>http://www.usmagazine.com/angelina-jolie-twins-conceived-through-in-vitro
}
>>>>
>>>> Every family is created in its own special way but it just kind of
>>>> hurts me in some way that they want a big family and since getting
>>>> pregnant is such a hassle, they'll just do IVF and speed it up. God
how
>>>> I wish it had been that easy. That I could just arrange it so that
when
>>>> I want to get pregnant I will just run down and have IVF. I guess
that
>>>> gives you complete freedom to schedule everything so you have your
>>>> child/ren when you want to. And then there are families that work so
>>>> hard just to finally welcome one beautiful face. It makes want to
cry.
>>>> I guess I am jealous.
>>>>
>>>> C
>>>> HappyMamatoThree
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
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